Rewarding good behavior

Yesterday afternoon BOTH girls took naps!
What a feat!
I get peaceful quiet time AND two little girls who are happy and fun to be around in the evening.

Truth be told, I rewarded (bribed) them.
My brother invited us to his place for dinner last night.
Just seeing their uncle is a special treat, but actually going over to his apartment is a monumental occasion.

So, before putting them down for their afternoon naps, I read them two stories (using my best character voices) and then said, "If you take a good rest, then we can go to Uncle Adam's apartment for dinner." That sealed the deal. They both slept for two hours.

Jo is on her best behavior when I offer rewards that are activities (playdate with a friend). CoCo is still trying to wrap her head around the concept of consequences, but she more dutifully behaves when there is an immediate, preferably edible reward (My Little Pony fruit snacks are a favorite).

It may come across that I'm bribing my kids to be good, but I like to think of it as Rewarding Good Behavior. And, BOY OH BOY, it sure beats yelling and screaming and fits of rage.